Hide and Seek and Other Games We Still Play in Business and Life

“My dad used to say, Things may happen around you and may happen to you, but the only things that really count are what happens in you."

Nicholas Lombardi, son of the late Dr. Donald N. Lombardi, psychologist and professor

 

What prevents you from living the life that you want?

 

Although this is a complex question, the answer often lies in the games we played as kids, the games that are familiar and comfortable. Remember Hide and Seek? What are you hiding from that prevents you from forming successful relationships? What fears keep your “Monsters in the Closet?” Are you blaming external factors versus looking inside yourself?

 

Evonne develops a shorthand language of familiar childhood games that provide a simple and safe way to examine our behavior and relationships from the inside out – versus the outside in. Because the more you hide from yourself, the more you will seek answers outside of yourself and be misdirected.  

 

What prevents us from forming meaningful relationships is generally our fears – fear of being invisible, fear of being unlovable, fear of failure, or fear of chaos. We spend a tremendous amount of energy and effort keeping our fears hidden and reverting back to childhood behaviors that are no longer healthy.

 

These same fears are prevalent in both our personal and business lives. Tired of playing “Mother May I” and being afraid to make a move? Or maybe you treat your employees like the “Simon Says” type of person who always tells them what to do and does not recognize they have a mind of your own

 

Either way, through Evonne’s insights and role playing, you will be ENLIGHTENED. You will identify your the fears that hold you back, learn skills to confront and overcome them, and translate your negative energy into more positive relationships.   

 

The end result? You can play “Pin The Tail on the Donkey” with your blinders off, no longer blundering around with no vision and clarity. No more wasted energy playing silly games with yourself. Instead, you’ll arrive at a more peaceful place and be re-energized by your mind, your heart and your body being in balance. You’ll be amazed by the power you give back to yourself!

 

This seminar focuses on:

  • Unraveling your fears and the games and childhood patterns that sap your energy
  • Emerging enlightened, leaving destructive but familiar childhood behaviors behind and replacing them with peaceful and prosperous relationships
  • Redefining FEARS-Face Emotions And Reclaim Self.
  •  Uncovering how relationships can dramatically be changed without confronting others, but by confronting the Self.